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The dolphin way : a parent's guide to raising healthy, happy, and motivated kids--without turning into a tiger
August 5, 2014
Kang, Shimi K., author.
New York : Jeremy P. Tarcher, Penguin, 
334 pages ; 24 cm.
Pt. 1: The dilemma : "I know this doesn't feel right, but everyone else is doing it" ; The reign of the tiger ; What happens to children raised by tigers? -- Pt. 2: The solution : swimming with the dolphins. The twenty-first century is the age of the dolphins ; How do dolphins thrive? -- Pt. 3: Taking action : achieving twenty-first-century success through balance. The basics are first and foremost ; Play is in our nature ; Humans are social beings ; A dolphin parenting toolkit -- Pt. 4: Transformation : living a life of health, happiness, and self-motivation. Self-motivation is lasting ; What happens to children raised the dolphin way? ; Getting back to being human.
The author "...shows why pushy, hovering 'tiger parents' and permissive 'jellyfish parents' actually hinder self-motivation. She proposes a powerful new parenting model: the intelligent, playful, highly social dolphin. Dolphin parents focus on maintaining balance in their children's lives to gently, yet authoritatively guide them toward lasting health, happiness, and success"-- Front dust jacket flap.
July 9, 2014
Good, Jason, author.
San Francisco : Chronicle Books, 
176 pages ; 19 cm
Preparedness -- No permanent damage -- Understanding your co-parent -- Lowering your standards -- Communicate! Communicate! Communicate! -- This is ridiculous, this is amazing.
Parenting without panic : a pocket support group for parents of children and teens on the autism spectrum (Asperger's syndrome)
July 8, 2014
Dater, Brenda, author.
240 pages : illustrations ; 23 cm.
Ever wish that parenting a child or teen on the autism spectrum came with instant access to a support group? Brenda Dater has provided parents with exactly that. In this book she draws on her extensive experience as a support group leader and parent of a child on the spectrum to offer trusted advice and tried-and-tested solutions to parents' top concerns, all in an accessible and easy-to-read format. Filled with the voices of other parents in the same situation, the book covers everything from the first steps to take after diagnosis, to advocacy and disclosure, behavior, building independence and resilience, making friends, holidays and vacations, homework, supporting siblings, how to garner support from extended family and friends, and how parents can look after their own wellbeing.
June 25, 2014
200 pages : color illustrations ; 20 x 28 cm
Presents seventy parenting tips based on scientific research, discussing the best ways to help infants sleep well, boosting a child's success in school, handling temper tantrums, and managing consequences and punishments.
June 24, 2014
Bennett, Elayne, author.
[Nashville, Tennessee] : Nelson Books, 
xx, 315 pages ; 24 cm
"Foreword by Meg Meeker."--Cover
Argues that society is failing girls and young women and offers information and advice on how parents, siblings, schools, universities, and the rest of us can do to create a better world for girls.
June 23, 2014
Oakland, CA : New Harbinger Publications, Inc., 
viii, 214 pages : illustrations ; 23 cm
Understanding yelling. "Is that me yelling?" ; "Why am I yelling?" ; "Why am I really yelling?" ; "What's temperament got to do wtih it?" -- Everyday strategies for yelling less. "Yelling is so easy, can I really stop?" ; "What can I do instead of yelling?" ; "Help, another storm is coming!" -- Special circumstances. "Help, I'm not the yeller" ; "How can I stop yelling when my life is so challenging?" -- Epilogue: world peace begins at home.
"When children refuse to do even little things--like picking up their toys or getting in the car to go to school--it's easy for parents to become frustrated. But what if there was a gentle, effective way for parents to improve their kids' behavior, without losing their cool or raising their voice? In Is That Me Yelling? a registered nurse and child temperament specialist shows parents how to effectively communicate with their kids by focusing on their child's unique temperament. Using mindfulness techniques based in cognitive behavioral theory (CBT) and temperament theory, readers will learn to reduce conflict and foster cooperation, respect, and understanding in their family"-- Provided by publisher.
June 20, 2014
Brown, Christia Spears.
Berkeley : Ten Speed Press, 
xi, 225 pages ; 21 cm
Prologue: On being the weird daughter-in-law -- Gender differences: changing our focus. Noticing gender ; Why labels matter ; Why we focus on gender differences -- Gender facts: science and stereotypes. There are gender differences ; How different is different? ; Decoding neuroscience -- Raising unique (fun, well-rounded, smarter, and happier) kids. How children help create the differences we see ; Parenting a stereotype ; Accidentally shaping who children become ; Stereotype sneak attacks ; Separate but equal? An old problem is new again -- Epilogue: Dropping the stereotypes and picking your battles.
Outlines psychology-based strategies for focusing on a child's unique strengths rather than on gender expectations, counseling parents on how to avoid cultural inclinations that limit a child's potential.
June 12, 2014
Duffy, John, 1964 August 19-
Berkeley, CA : Viva Editions, 
xlvi, 161 pages ; 21 cm
Originally published in 2011.
Machine generated contents note: Foreword -- Prologue and Author's Note -- Introduction -- The Nature of Availability -- Radical Optimism -- The Good-Enough Teenager -- What Do I Know? -- Availability: Your Mandate as a Parent -- Part 1: Your Teenager's Wild World -- Too Much Data, Too Little Filter -- This Isn't Kansas Anymore -- The Adolescent Mind -- Social In-security -- Breaking Away -- The Nature of Teen Rebellion -- Sex -- Intimacy: More Than Hooking Up -- Body Image: The Locker Room Terror -- What About the Gay Issue? -- Part 2: What Never Works -- Why Lectures Never Work -- Why Vicarious Living Never Works -- Why Micromanaging Never Works -- Why Snooping Never Works -- Why Underestimating Never Works -- Why Blinders Never Work -- Why Judging Never Works -- Why Smothering Never Works -- Why Coddling Never Works -- Why Overindulgence Never Works -- Why Bribery Never Works -- Why "Good Cop, Bad Cop" Never Works -- Why Waiting Never Works -- Part 3: What Always Works -- Check Your Ego -- Don't Make It About You -- Emotional Role Modeling -- Tapping Your Intuition -- Gaining Traction -- Deposits in the Emotional Bank Account -- Simple Acknowledgment -- The Multiple Benefits of Laughter -- The Ozzy Connection -- Communication and Connection -- The Power of Music -- Other Ways to Connect -- The Friendship Debate -- Shifting the Energy -- Re-connecting -- Protect Time -- Step Away from the iPhone! -- u cn txt ur kid, k? -- Calm, Clear Consequences -- Disciplinary Action -- Punishment, Rewards, and Consequences -- The Behavioral Contract -- When to Say No: Following Your Intuition -- See the Light -- Fondness and Admiration -- Finding Those Corners Where Strengths Dwell -- Supporting Your Teen's Interests -- Building Self-Esteem or Self-Mastery -- What about the Weird Kid? -- Be the Change -- Inspiration by Example -- When Not to Be Available: Parent as Consultant -- Why Available Parenting Always Works -- Final Note: My Hope for You -- About the Author.
"We have a tendency today to over-parent, micro-manage, and under-appreciate our adolescents. Dr. John Duffy's The Available Parent is a revolutionary approach to taking care of teens and tweens. Teenagers are often left feeling unheard and misunderstood, and parents are left feeling bewildered by the changes in their child at adolescence and their sudden lack of effectiveness as parents. The parent has become unavailable, the teen responds in kind, and a negative, often destructive cycle of communication begins. The available parent of a teenager is open to discussion, offering advice and solutions, but not insisting on them. He allows his child to make some mistakes, setting limits, primarily where health and safety are concerned. He never lectures -- he is available but not controlling. He is neither cruel nor dismissive, ever. The available parent is fun and funny, and can bring levity to the most stressful situation. All of that is to say, there are no conditions to his availability -- it is absolute"-- Provided by publisher.
Mindful discipline : a loving approach to setting limits and raising an emotionally intelligent child
June 2, 2014
Shapiro, Shauna L.
Oakland, CA : New Harbinger Publications, 
xiv, 206 pages : illustrations ; 23 cm
"Raising happy, compassionate, and responsible children requires both love and limits. In Mindful Discipline, internationally recognized mindfulness expert Shauna Shapiro and pediatrician Chris White weave together ancient wisdom and modern science to provide new perspectives on parenting and discipline. Grounded in mindfulness and neuroscience, this pioneering book redefines discipline and outlines the five essential elements necessary for children to thrive: unconditional love, space for children to be themselves, mentorship, healthy boundaries, and mis-takes that create learning and growth opportunities. In this book, you will also discover parenting practices such as setting limits with love, working with difficult emotions, and forgiveness and compassion meditations that place discipline within a context of mindfulness. This relationship-centered approach will restore your confidence as a parent and support your children in developing emotional intelligence, self-discipline, and resilience-qualities they need for living an authentic and meaningful life"-- Provided by publisher.
The explosive child : a new approach for understanding and parenting easily frustrated, chronically inflexible children
May 27, 2014
Greene, Ross W., author.
New York : Harper, 2014.
xvii, 280 pages : illustrations ; 20 cm
May 23, 2014
Tsabary, Shefali, 1972-, author.
Vancouver, British Columbia : Namaste Publishing, 
xx, 248 pages ; 23 cm
May 16, 2014
Harris, Sandra L.
Bethesda, MD : Woodbine House, 2012.
xii, 163 p. : ill. ; 22 cm.
May 13, 2014
Barkley, Russell A., 1949-
New York : The Guilford Press, 
xii, 257 pages : illustrations ; 25 cm
Preface -- Introduction -- Part I. Getting to Know Your Defiant Child -- "Is Something Wrong with My Child?" -- "Why Is This Happening to My Family?" -- "What Should I Do about It?" -- Words to Live By: The Foundation of Better Behavior -- Part II. Getting Along with Your Defiant Child -- Step 1: Pay Attention! -- Step 2: Start Earning Peace and Cooperation with Praise -- Step 3: When Praise Is Not Enough, Offer Rewards -- Step 4: Use Mild Discipline: Time-Out and More -- Step 5: Use Time-Out with Other Misbehavior -- Step 6: Think Aloud and Think Ahead: What to Do in Public -- Step 7: Help the Teacher Help Your Child -- Step 8: Moving toward a Brighter Future -- Resources.
"More than 100,000 families have found a way to end constant power struggles with defiant, aggressive, "impossible" kids, thanks to this accessible bestseller. Leading expert Russell A. Barkley translates cutting-edge research into a practical, doable system that leads to lasting behavior change. Eight simple steps--based on praise, rewards, and mild discipline--are illustrated with helpful examples. Parents get crucial encouragement and troubleshooting tips for implementing the approach consistently, even on the worst of days. Thoroughly revised, the second edition reflects 15 years' worth of research advances and Dr. Barkley's ongoing experiences with parents and kids. It offers updated resources, greater flexibility, and a more positive, affirming tone. Helpful forms and worksheets are included; purchasers get access to a Web page where they can download and print these materials in a convenient 8 1/2" x 11" size"-- Provided by publisher.
May 5, 2014
Berman, Robin E., 1950- author.
New York : HarperWave, .
253 pages : illustrations ; 22 cm.
April 17, 2014
Barkley, Russell A., 1949-
New York : Guilford Press, .
x, 372 pages ; 23 cm
Introduction -- You and your defiant teen -- What defiance is-and what you should do about it -- How defiance develops -- What does adolescence have to do with it? -- Is it just your teen's personality? -- Where do you come in? -- How to find a way out -- 10 steps to a better relationship with your teen-and a better future for your teen -- Getting ready -- Step 1. Making positive one-on-one time a habit -- Step 2. A new way to manage behavior -- Step 3. Contracts and point systems : how teens can earn privileges -- Step 4. making the punishment really fit the crime -- Step 5. Tackling additional issues with rewards and penalties -- Step 6. Addressing defiant behavior in school and conflicts over homework -- Step 7. Using problem-solving skills -- Step 8. learning and practicing communication skills -- Step 9. dealing with unreasonable beliefs and expectations -- Step 10. keeping it together -- Appendix A. Sample problem-solving worksheets -- Appendix B. How to find a therapist -- Resources.
April 17, 2014
De Toledo, Sylvie.
New York : The Guilford Press, 
xviii, 331 pages ; 24 cm
When the second shift arrives -- Unplanned parenthood : "why me?" -- Taking immediate action -- Your lifestyle : changed and challenged -- Family at large : your spouse and other children -- Your adult child -- Your troubled grandchild -- Your grandchild and the school -- The drug epidemic at home -- When parents get their children back -- Through the red tape -- Grandparenting and the law -- Child protection and the dependency system -- Government aid and public assistance -- Special education and early intervention -- Strength in numbers -- Their arms about us: finding and forming support groups -- Conclusion -- Appendices.
April 15, 2014
Stibbe, Nina, author.
ix, 320 pages ; 22 cm
In 1982, 20-year-old Nina Stibbe moved to London to work as a nanny to two opinionated and lively young boys. In frequent letters home to her sister, Nina described her trials and triumphs.
April 14, 2014
Reid, Jordan, author.
Philadelphia, PA : Running Press, a member of the Perseus Books Group, 2014.
191 pages : color illustrations ; 24 cm
Ramshackle Glam creator Jordan Reid was a little nervous about becoming a mother. "In my experience," she writes, "you know what happens when you hold babies? They cry. And it immediately becomes clear to all present that you have terrible parental instincts and should never be allowed to come into contact with children--ever." But in October 2011 Reid became a mother herself, and over the first year of her son's life the writer and media personality not only figured out a thing or two about parenting, but also learned how to navigate an entirely new lifestyle while still maintaining a sense of self. Part memoir, part commiseration, and part how-to guide on fashion, beauty, home décor and entertaining for the new mom, Ramshackle Glam offers something fresh for the "mommy" bookshelf: concrete advice on how to care for yourself in the post-partum days, weeks, and months.
April 11, 2014
New York : Three Rivers Press, 
201 pages : color illustrations ; 18 cm
"A glimpse into the tribulations of parenting that is part documentary, part therapy, and completely hilarious. It all started when busy father Greg Pembroke posted a few pictures online of his three-year-old son, mid-tantrum, alongside the reason his son was crying: He had broken his bit of cheese in half. In Reasons My Kid is Crying, Greg collects together photos sent from parents around the world, documenting the many, completely logical reasons why small children cry. Among them: "I let him play on the grass". "He ran out of toys to throw into his pool". "The neighbor's dog isn't outside". The result is both an affectionate portrait of the universal, baffling logic of toddlers--and a reminder for burned-out parents everywhere that they are not alone. "-- Provided by publisher.
April 7, 2014
Wilcock, Fiona, author.
New York, NY : DK Publishing, 2014.
224 pages : color illustrations ; 25 cm
Raising children that other people like to be around : Five common sense musts from a father's point of view
April 1, 2014
Greenberg, Richard E., author.
[London] : New Generation, ©2013.
172 pages ; 21 cm
"The parenting process is designed to succeed, yet millions of parents wonder if they're doing things "right." After raising four kids over thirty years, Richard Greenberg shows how tapping into the common sense you already have is the first key to parenting. Then it's a matter of putting that knowledge to work."--Cover, p.4.
March 27, 2014
Koegel, Lynn Kern.
New York : Penguin Books, .
xxix, 398 pages ; 22 cm.
March 21, 2014
Boston, MA : Da Capo Lifelong, 
vii, 268 pages ; 24 cm
Permissive parents, coddled kids, and other reliable bogeymen -- Parenting in perspective -- Overstating overparenting -- Getting hit on the head lessons: motivation, failure, and the outrage over participation trophies -- The underlying values: conditionality, scarcity, and deprivation -- The attack on self-esteem -- Why self-discipline is overrated: a closer look at grit, marshmallows, and control from within -- Raising rebels.
Parentology : everything you wanted to know about the science of raising children but were too exhausted to ask
March 13, 2014
Conley, Dalton, 1969-
New York : Simon & Schuster, 2014.
ix, 237 pages : illustrations ; 23 cm
Calm mama, happy baby : the simple, intuitive way to tame tears, improve sleep, and help your family thrive
February 5, 2014
O'Neill, Derek, 1964-
Deerfield Beach, Fla. : Health Communications, c2013.
xviii, 221 pages ; 23 cm
Little bright lights -- The invisible umbilical -- Connecting to calm -- In search of mother instinct -- Negative mama mantra no. 1: I'm doing it wrong -- Negative mama mantra no. 2: You're doing it wrong -- Negative mama mantra no. 3: Things went wrong in the past or will go wrong in the future -- Stay calm and carry on questions and answers -- Appendix A: Calm and happy feeding and sleep -- Appendix B: color and music -- Appendix C: Caring papa happy mama.
Offers mothers of infants and young children practical tools for reducing stress and intuitively understanding their child's needs, drawing on research to show how a parent's stress directly affects a child's health, behavior, and mood.
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